Support

In this week's reading I found support to be really important in friend circle. It is one of many ways to show our friends that we care about them. For example, my best friend told me that he did not do well on his midterm and was upset about it. I told him that he tried his best and he can do better than that. I advised him to concentrate more hours on studies rather than playing basketball. In my communication I showed my friend that I care about his life situations and his feelings. I supported him by telling him that he can do better, and giving him an advice that he should concentrate more on studies. The level of friendship and trust increases whenever we show support or receive support. I also agree with the author that men tend to show support thorough indirect communication. For example, when men support their friends or anyone we all tend to clasp our shoulder or punch on the arm to show the support. I personally tend not to sustain in the emotional talk and show support by advising or I will provide a diversion so that I can take my friend's mind off the problem.